Dear Sambag: My Boyfriend Acts Gay
My boyfriend is the sweetest guy ever and he is really hot but he acts gay and it’s so bad that people always call him gay and ask me why I am dating a gay guy…and that makes him mad so he acts even gayer. He comments on how he likes other guys’ eyes and how he thinks guys are good looking. I DON’T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH IT….it was just a little confusing. He insists that he is straight but ARGGG I dunno… I like him a lot! Help.
Okay, since when do gay men have a way that they act? Surely, you do not believe there is stereotypical gay behavior. Gay men run the entire gamut of behavior. Some are pro athletes, football players and others are big rig truck drivers.
Maybe your boyfriend is just effeminate. Straight guys can be effeminate, just like gay guys can be masculine. If you really want to know if he’s gay is by simply observing his eyes. Yep, it’s all in the eyes. The next time you two are walking in a mall or around a local park with numerous people, notice how his eyes move. Notice how he shifts his vision when a hot guy passes by. If his eyes are shifty when he is around hot guys, he is definitely gay and in denial. Many young gay guys are in denial of being gay and try to force themselves to have relationships with women. Largely due to the bias and gay prejudice in society.
But I’ll stop there and let our readers weigh in. Please share your advice and experiences in the Comments below.