Dear Sambag: Is He Gay or Not?
There’s this hot guy who I met in the local gym. We’re both college aged guys. Every time he’s present, he makes eye contact with me quite a few times throughout. I do the same. I like him a lot and want to find out if he’s gay or bi, so maybe I can ask him out. Do you think it’s a good idea to write on a small piece of paper, asking if he’s gay or bi and have him read it? So that way no one else in the gym can see the awkwardness, or should I ask him straight out if he’s into guys? I think he’s cute and want to chill with him. What is the best way for me to ask if he’s gay? What are some hints that a guy may be gay without actually asking him? I want to find a way to ask if he is gay without offending him if he turns out to be straight. Please help.
Raymundo from Colombia
Thanks for writing, Raymundo. I’ll let our readers weigh in. Please share your advice and experiences in the Comments below.