Dear Sambag,

I have been out since 2007 and I have been on every dating site there is from Tinder to Adam4Adam.

I’ll be 26 in December and I still haven’t had my first date or even a first boyfriend yet and it’s making me severely depressed whenever I think about it to the point to where I feel like love doesn’t exist for me.

Sometimes I don’t even know why I try anymore.

JD

Dear JD,

Love exists for everybody. Whether or not it happens to you depends on a huge number of factors, some of which are under your control and many which aren’t. Strive to be the best person you can be and put yourself out there — socialize, take some classes or attend events where you might make new friends who share your interests. The more people you know, and that includes straight people, the more likely you are to meet someone you’ll click with. I know so many gay folks who met their SO through mutual friends. I’m not saying stop using the apps, this is in addition to the apps.

But I’ll stop there and let our readers weigh in. Please share your advice in the Comments below.

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Dear Sambag, I have been out since 2007 and I have been on every dating site there is from Tinder to Adam4Adam. I'll be 26 in December and I still haven't had my first date or even a first boyfriend yet and it's making me severely depressed whenever I think about...