Dear Sambag,

I cheated on my boyfriend of 5 years. It was a one-time thing and I immediately regretted it. However, he deserved to know the truth so I confessed and apologized.

He immediately broke up with me and blocked me everywhere. Our mutual friends told me he’s very hurt and does not want to talk to me ever again.

I f*&*ed up real bad but I really love him and I don’t want a single mistake to be the end of us.

How can I fix this? I know I should respect his wishes and move on, but I just cant.

– Jake

Dear Jake,

I’ll not beat a dead horse by telling you how much you f**ed up because you’re obviously aware. You had the decency to tell him and own up to what you did though, so that’s something.

As for getting back into the relationship? There’s not much you can really do. You’ve let him know you cheated and that you regret it, now the ball is in his court. He might take you back, he might not, and you’ll have to accept that the decision is up to him.

But I’ll stop there and let our readers weigh in. Please share your advice in the Comments below.

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Dear Sambag, I cheated on my boyfriend of 5 years. It was a one-time thing and I immediately regretted it. However, he deserved to know the truth so I confessed and apologized. He immediately broke up with me and blocked me everywhere. Our mutual friends told me he's very hurt and...