Dear Sambag,

Recently I started to sleep with a popular guy at my HS. He’s totally in the closet and wants to keep it that way. We go to a HS with a large student body and if this conceptualizes his popularity: he is known by about everyone in our school.

We met at a party and he walked home with me and asked me out on a date. We have been on a few dates and he is so lovely, we have slept together (twice) and I really like him, find him attractive and want to pursue a relationship with him. But he doesn’t want to come out. His parents are very homophobic and our school seems to be pretty homophobic.

Should I date someone who will effectively have to date me in secret? Will it be too hard?

Dello

Dear Dello,

You’re in high school, I’d say go for it. Who knows, maybe you’ll become high school sweethearts and grow old together, regardless, it’s a good learning experience for both you and him. Learn what you like, learn what he likes, enjoy each other’s company, learn to deal with the homophobia, etc.

But I’ll stop there and let our readers weigh in. Please share your advice in the Comments below.

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Dear Sambag, Recently I started to sleep with a popular guy at my HS. He's totally in the closet and wants to keep it that way. We go to a HS with a large student body and if this conceptualizes his popularity: he is known by about everyone in our...