Dear Sambag,

About 7 months ago, I met this guy — charming, smart, can hold a conversation, even had a master’s degree. Was even into a lot of the more obscure things that I’m into. Anyways, by the 2nd date, which is incredibly quick, we became an official couple.

He lives with his parents and I’ve met them, I think they like me because I have my own place and they’re pretty vocal about wanting him out of their house, which leads to the main point. He’s slowly trying to move in with me, brought in a couple pieces of furniture, generally assumes that he can stay the night and even gets a bit angry when I tell him that I don’t want him over. Now, saying that, he does occasionally clean up around the house and buys groceries on occasion.

Honestly, he’s actually a sweetheart that I know would do anything for me but due to some issues with his past and how it feels like I’m kinda being used, I’m not sure if I want to break up with him because the relationship has run its course or because I’m just being selfish with my space. Anyways, advice?

Brody

Dear Brody,

You need to communicate with him. If you need space, get space and clear your head. Tell him that.

If you decide you can’t see anything with him, then don’t continue because he looks good on paper. Relationships are emotional – you need to feel a connection and like it is going somewhere. If you don’t, do him a favor and break it off. It will give him the opportunity to find someone who wants him for who he is.

But I’ll stop there and let our readers weigh in. Please share your advice in the Comments below.

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Dear Sambag, About 7 months ago, I met this guy — charming, smart, can hold a conversation, even had a master’s degree. Was even into a lot of the more obscure things that I’m into. Anyways, by the 2nd date, which is incredibly quick, we became an official couple....