Dear Sambag,

I’m not going to lie. I’m dumb. I barely made it through high school; nobody was surprised when I couldn’t make it through the first semester of college, let alone get a degree.

My boyfriend. The doctor. He’s a freaking genius, there’s nothing he doesn’t have an answer to.
Obviously, how we earn money is different. He’s deep into research and earns much more than I do. And I have a dead-end job at the nearest Walmart. It was the only job I could get, and I can’t believe they haven’t fired me yet.

This was never a problem. I helped him with what I could and everything worked out. But for the last week, now it’s a problem. He’s always been cheerful and funny, but now he’s serious and stern.
All of the sudden, now it’s a problem that I didn’t finish college, that I don’t have a better job, that I don’t make enough, and so on. He now starts yelling that I don’t help enough and that it would be better if he paid me to be his maid.

The other day he showed up at my job with a full cart. See this? This is all I pay for! What do you pay for? He shouted and then he left the cart there. In front of everybody. I don’t know what to say.

I lost count how many times I asked him what was wrong, but he starts yelling again that I’m a useless bum. I don’t know what to do now.

What changed? It was never a problem.

Peter

Dear Peter,

Super short and sweet advice: get out of this relationship. Then work on yourself and upping your self image and self esteem. You’re never going to find meaningful love when you’re as down on yourself as you are.

Love,

Sam

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Dear Sambag, I’m not going to lie. I'm dumb. I barely made it through high school; nobody was surprised when I couldn't make it through the first semester of college, let alone get a degree. My boyfriend. The doctor. He's a freaking genius, there's nothing he doesn't have an answer to. Obviously,...